Mother of Light and Humility



Chapter 1



The Love of My Mother

 

Jesus prompted me to write this book in honor of His Mother. His desire is to bring about a change in the hearts of His people, so that our hearts may resemble His MotherŐs heart more.

Our LadyŐs heart consists of a universal love, one that pertains to every living creature. It is a love that reaches beyond all human understanding or comprehension. It is a divine love, one that is filled with the fire of the Holy Spirit. 

Mary loves all her children equally. She wants all of us to be brought home to the glory of her Son, so that we may dwell with the Father for all eternity. MaryŐs love is never ending. Like Jesus, she knows best what our souls need to honor and worship the Father. She was chosen by the Father to be the mother of His incarnate Son, and she is called the second ŇEveÓ, because she is the spiritual mother of all the living.

Our LadyŐs love is pure, clean, and unfailing. She is the perfect Mother. Therefore, she knows best how to handle each of our needs and how to assist us in times of trial and temptation. In the book, The Reign of Jesus through Mary, St. Louis de Montfort tells us;

 

ŇAs in the order of nature, a child must have a physical father and a mother, so likewise in the order of grace, a true child of the Church must have God for his Father and Mary for his Mother.Ó

 

We know that Mary was full of grace from the very moment she was conceived in her motherŐs womb. Therefore, Mary was immaculate from the first moment of her conception. This is what the Church teaches, and this evidence can be found in Genesis 3:15. God said:

 

I will put enmity between you and the woman,

   and between your offspring and hers;

      He will strike at your head,

  while you strike at his heel.

 

Mary is the woman that is referred to in Genesis. She is the woman who will crush SatanŐs head. Who are the offspring in this scripture verse? The word, offspring, refers to Jesus and His followers, us.

To put enmity between two people means to put repelling power between them. Therefore, Mary never had or ever will have any contact with Satan. Her soul, unlike ours, was never tainted by original sin. How pure and clean then must her soul be? How much more perfect, then, must her love be for each of us?

Pope Piux IX defined the dogma of MaryŐs immaculate conception on December 8, 1954. His dogma states that by a unique gift of grace and privilege of Almighty God, that the Most Holy Virgin Mary was free from sin from the first moment of her conception, preserving her from all stain of original sin. She is truly the Virgin Mary, most pure.

If you want to know perfection in GodŐs eyes then, you have only to look at Mary. She is perfect in GodŐs sight. Without sin, she never failed to be obedient. She is the model of holiness and grace. When you grow closer to Mary, you grow closer to Jesus, because Jesus dwells in Mary and Mary in Him.

Mary wants Jesus to dwell in each of our hearts also. That is why she gave Him to us as our Lord and Savior. She formed Him, not only in her womb, but also in his ministry as High Priest for our salvation. She raised Him to resemble the FatherŐs will in all things, by teaching Him how to imitate the Father and give glory to God forever.

            While praying one day to Jesus, I received the following meditation.

 

JESUS SPEAKS

 

            My Mother bore the example of the world on her shoulders. She knew how it was to be lonely and cold. She knew how it was to be homeless and without dignity in the world. Her dignity was in her soul.  She cradled Me, both in her arms and in her heart.

     She knew what it was like to be scoffed at and made fun of, but she never let this stop her from being obedient or loving towards her enemies..

 

Mary bore patiently the sufferings of the world, out of love for her Son and humanity. She knew the Father was calling her Son to great things, but she did not know how it would all take place. Yet, she trusted God the Father, in spite of not fully comprehending what God had in mind.

            Whenever I am seeking to know the will of God the Father, I run to Mary. I ask her to give me courage and strength to live out my baptismal promises and to do what God is calling me to do. Each of us has a set purpose and plan in life that God has chosen for us and is calling us to fulfill, but it takes grace from above to know and accomplish that plan. That is why we need the help of Mary.

            St. Louis de Montfort explains that since Mary formed Jesus Christ as the head of the elect, it is also her office to form the members of that head, that is to say, all true Christians. So, whoever wishes to be a member of Jesus Christ, who is full of grace and truth, must also be spiritually formed through Mary, by means of the grace of Jesus Christ, which she possesses in its fullness. Therefore, Mary has received this special office over our souls in order to nourish them and give them growth in God.

            St. Augustine tells us that all the elect are hidden in MaryŐs womb until she brings them forth into eternal life. In the same manner, as a child draws its strength from the motherŐs womb physically, so we too draw our spiritual strength while on earth from Mary.

            Therefore, Mary has been entrusted with all the graces that are required for each of us to be formed in GodŐs image, in order that we may fulfill the will of God in our lives. That is why she is called the Mediatrix of all graces. She knows best, in union with Christ, how to distribute GodŐs graces to help us accomplish His love and desires for us.

            What is the definition of grace? In January, 1995, while praying to Our Lady, I heard these words in my heart:

 

            ŇReceive these graces from my Beloved Son, in whom thou have been greatly blessed.Ó

 

After pondering Our LadyŐs words for some time, I realized that I did not fully understand the definition of grace. A few months later, while praying in church, I asked Jesus what grace was, and in prayer I heard the following definition.

 

ŇGrace is my divine love, manifested through Me, given to you by the Holy Spirit, to purify your soul, to make you pleasing in the eyes of my Father.Ó

 

Grace then is a gift of the Trinity, but it is distributed through the hands of Our Lady, because of GodŐs love for her and us.

 

The Catholic Catechism also describes grace in Article 2003 as:

 

2003- Grace is first and foremost the gift of the Spirit who justifies and sanctifies us. But grace also includes the gifts that the Spirit grants us to associate us with his work, to enable us to collaborate in the salvation of others and in the growth of the Body of Christ, the Church.

 

It further explains MaryŐs role as our Mother in the order of grace:

 

968- Her role in relation to the Church and to all humanity goes still further. ŇIn a wholly singular way she cooperated by her obedience, faith, hope, and burning charity in the SaviorŐs work of restoring supernatural life to souls. For this reason she is a mother to us in the order of grace(LG61)

 

Mary has been given the honor of distributing all graces to us. That is why she is the Mediatrix of all graces. St. Bernardine of Sienna teaches us that Mary gives to whom she wills, the way she wills, when she wills, and as much as she wills, the graces of the Eternal Father, the virtues of Jesus Christ, and the gifts of the Holy Ghost.

Mary knows that JesusŐ love and graces purify us and make us pleasing in His FatherŐs eyes. Therefore, because Mary is the spouse of the Holy Spirit, it is only fitting that she cooperates in the distribution of all graces. Her love and GodŐs love are one and the same for humanity, because her will and GodŐs will are one and the same. Anything that you ask of Mary, in union with the will of the Trinity, will be granted to you. What a great privilege to have Mary as our maternal intercessor for all ages!

The Catholic Catechism has this to say about the distribution of graces through Mary:

 

969 - "This motherhood of Mary in the order of grace continues uninterruptedly from the consent which she loyally gave at the Annunciation and which she sustained without wavering beneath the cross, until the eternal fulfillment of all the elect. Taken up to heaven she did not lay aside this saving office but by her manifold intercession continues to bring us the gifts of eternal salvation. . . . Therefore the Blessed Virgin is invoked in the Church under the titles of Advocate, Helper, Benefactress, and Mediatrix.Ó (LG 62).